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Ben Salomon
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What started as a niche marketing term has exploded into a global eCommerce event. Cyber Monday is, for many brands, the single most important day of the year. It’s no longer just a day; it’s the peak of a shopping season that can make or break an entire quarter. But what is it, really?

At its simplest, Cyber Monday is the Monday after the American Thanksgiving holiday. It was traditionally promoted as the day for shoppers to find the best online deals, a digital companion to the in-store chaos of Black Friday. Today, those lines have almost disappeared. It’s now the high-stakes finale of a weeks-long promotional period known as BFCM (Black Friday Cyber Monday). For developers and eCommerce professionals, it’s a massive test of site performance, marketing strategy, and customer retention.

The personas mentioned in this article come directly from our 2025 BFCM On Tour Report. Check out the report to meet each shopper persona — Lyra, Orion, Sol, and Kai — and explore the full data behind them.

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The Origins and Evolution of Cyber Monday

Understanding where this day came from helps explain what it’s become. It wasn’t born from some ancient retail tradition. It was created, named, and promoted by marketers just as eCommerce was beginning to mature.

Where Did the Term “Cyber Monday” Come From?

The term “Cyber Monday” was coined in 2005. It first appeared in a press release from Shop.org, the digital division of the National Retail Federation.

Ellen Davis, a key figure at the NRF, and her team noticed a fascinating trend in their data. While Black Friday dominated the headlines for its in-store deals, there was a consistent and significant spike in online sales on the following Monday.

What was happening?

Think back to 2005. Most people did not have high-speed internet at home. They were still using dial-up. When they went to work on Monday, they returned to their office desktops, which had fast, always-on broadband connections.

They spent their weekends browsing in-store, making wishlists, and then used their work computers to discreetly do their holiday shopping. The 2005 press release simply gave this existing behavior a catchy name, and retailers quickly adopted it. They started creating “Cyber Monday” specific deals, and the concept gained momentum.

How Cyber Monday Grew from a Niche Idea to a Global Phenomenon

The growth of Cyber Monday maps directly to the growth of eCommerce itself.

In the mid-2000s, it was still a sideshow to Black Friday. The primary focus was on 4 AM lines outside of big-box stores. Online shopping was still viewed with some skepticism by the mainstream.

Then, two things changed everything: smartphones and social media.

As high-speed internet became common in homes and, more importantly, in our pockets, “shopping at work” was no longer the main driver. Shoppers could buy from their couch, their bed, or while waiting in line for coffee.

By 2011, Cyber Monday hit a major milestone. It became the first day in U.S. history to surpass $1 billion in online spending.

From there, the growth was exponential. Retailers realized they didn’t have to wait until Monday. They started launching “Cyber” deals on Sunday, then Saturday. This stretched the event into “Cyber Week.” Black Friday deals also moved online, starting earlier and earlier.

This created the “BFCM blur” we see today, where the entire period from Thanksgiving through the following week is one long promotional event. Cyber Monday now acts as the grand finale, the last big push for brands to capture holiday spending.

Cyber Monday by the Numbers: A Look at Recent Trends

The numbers behind Cyber Monday are staggering. It consistently sets new records for online spending in a single day.

Cyber Monday evolved from a quirky observation about office workers into the single biggest online shopping day of the year. Its growth was fueled by technology, and it has now effectively merged with Black Friday to create a single, massive shopping period. The data shows that shoppers are spending more, especially on mobile, making it a critical focus for any eCommerce brand.

Black Friday vs. Cyber Monday: What’s the Difference Anymore?

If you ask a shopper what the difference is, they might be uncertain. For most people, it’s all just “the big sale.” But there are still some key differences in history, perception, and strategy.

The Traditional Divide: Promotions vs. Desktops

For years, the division was clear and simple.

The Great Blur: How the Lines Have Disappeared

That traditional divide is almost entirely gone. Why?

  1. Retailers Moved Online: Big-box retailers like Best Buy and Target didn’t want to lose sales to online-only giants like Amazon. They started putting their best Black Friday deals online, sometimes even on Thanksgiving Day, to compete.
  2. Shoppers Became Omnichannel: Modern shoppers don’t see a difference between online and in-store. They use their phones in the store to compare prices. They’ll browse online and then use “Buy Online, Pick Up In-Store” (BOPIS). They expect a seamless experience.
  3. The “Cyber Week” Creep: Marketers are always pushing boundaries. “Cyber Monday” became “Cyber Week.” “Black Friday” became “Black Friday Month.” The urgency of a single day was diluted into a marathon.

Today, the most accurate term is BFCM. It refers to the entire promotional period from the week of Thanksgiving through the first week of December.

What Do Shoppers Expect from Each Day?

Even with the blur, some shopper perceptions remain.

For a brand, the strategy is no longer about “Black Friday OR Cyber Monday.” It’s about having a cohesive BFCM strategy that builds excitement, with different “peaks” or offers to keep shoppers engaged throughout the entire period.

In essence, while Black Friday and Cyber Monday started as distinct in-store and online events, they have now merged into one long promotional season called BFCM. Shoppers no longer see a hard line between them. For brands, this means running a marathon, not a sprint, and understanding that your online store is the main battleground for the entire duration.

Understanding the Modern BFCM Shopper (A Deep Dive)

To win during BFCM, you can’t just blast a 30% off coupon and hope for the best. As eCommerce professionals, we need to look beyond the traffic numbers and understand who is shopping. Why are they buying? Are they planning, or are they impulsive? Are they buying for themselves or for others?

Based on recent shopper data, we can identify four key personas. Each has a unique mindset and requires a different strategy.

Persona 1: Lyra, The Gifter (Highly Planned)

Lyra is the ultimate planner. She lives for finding the perfect gift and maps out her entire holiday shopping list with precision. She represents a group that’s 55% female and 40% Millennial. For her, strategy fuels the search, and sentiment drives the choice.

Key takeaway for Lyra: She is heavily influenced by loyalty programs (75% in Home) and reviews (72% in Fashion). She needs validation and rewards for her careful planning.

Persona 2: Orion, The Strategist (Highly Planned, Shops for Self)

Orion isn’t shopping for others; he’s leveling up his own life. He treats BFCM as his personal reward season. He’s 62% male and 38% Millennial. Patience fuels his strategy, and reviews guide his decisions. He’s been tracking that one item for months, just waiting for the price to drop.

Key takeaway for Orion: Reviews are everything to him. He is a researcher. He needs detailed, specific feedback to feel confident in his high-stakes personal purchases.

Persona 3: Sol, The Opportunist (Spontaneous, Shops for Others)

Sol is an opportunistic gift-giver. She has no master plan. She’s driven by the thrill of discovery and “wait, Mom would love this” moments. She’s 62% female and 35% Gen Z. For her, deep discounts are the green light. BFCM is a treasure hunt.

Key takeaway for Sol: She is a pure-discount shopper. The sale is her primary motivation. High star ratings and clear review summaries are essential to help her make fast, confident decisions.

Persona 4: Kai, The Indulger (Spontaneous, Shops for Self)

Kai is the king of the “treat yourself” mentality. He shops on impulse and vibes. No plan, just an “I deserve this” mentality. He’s 44% male and 30% Gen Z. Discovery fuels his scroll, and instant gratification drives his clicks.

Key takeaway for Kai: He’s an impulse buyer who needs quick validation. Visual UGC (photos/videos) is critical for him, as are loyalty perks that make his splurge feel “smarter.”

What These Personas Mean for Your Strategy

Understanding these four shoppers is crucial. You can’t market to Orion (The Strategist) the same way you market to Sol (The Spontaneist).

  1. Reviews are not optional. For planned shoppers like Orion and Lyra, they are a core part of the research process. For spontaneous shoppers like Kai and Sol, they are the instant social proof needed to click “buy.”
  2. Loyalty matters. For your planners (Orion, Lyra) and even your self-spenders (Kai), loyalty programs offering early access, exclusive perks, and redeemable points are a powerful incentive to shop with you instead of a competitor.
  3. Discounts motivate, but they aren’t everything. For Sol, the discount is the main story. But for Orion, the quality (proven by reviews) is just as important as the price.

This leads to a critical shift in thinking. Cyber Monday is no longer just about acquisition.

Why Cyber Monday Is No Longer Just About Acquisition

For years, brands treated Cyber Monday as a large-scale customer acquisition event. The goal was simple: get as many new customers as possible, at any cost. This led to a difficult cycle of deeper and deeper discounts.

The Vicious Cycle of Deep Discounts

Here’s the problem: when you compete on price alone, you acquire customers who are loyal only to the discount.

This creates the “one-and-done” shopper. They buy from you on Cyber Monday because you had the best deal (maybe 40% off). Next year, if a competitor offers 45% off, they’re gone. They have no brand loyalty.

This strategy is unsustainable. It erodes your profit margins and fills your customer list with low-value, high-churn names. You spend a fortune in ad costs to acquire them, and they never buy from you at full price.

The Shift in Focus: From First Sale to Second Sale

The smartest brands have shifted their focus. They now see Cyber Monday as the start of the customer journey, not the end of it.

Why? Because customer retention is the new growth. We all know the stats: it costs at least five times more to acquire a new customer than to retain an existing one.

A 5% increase in customer retention can increase profits by 25% to 95%.

Cyber Monday is the single biggest opportunity you have all year to fill the top of your retention funnel. The goal isn’t just to make the first sale. The goal is to make the second sale.

As eCommerce expert Ben Salomon notes, “Brands that treat Cyber Monday as the start of the customer relationship, not the end of it, are the ones who win in the long run. The sale is just the handshake.”

Using Cyber Monday as a Loyalty-Building Event

Instead of just a clearance sale, think of Cyber Monday as a massive enrollment event for your brand.

This mindset changes everything. The discount isn’t the product; it’s the incentive to join your brand’s ecosystem.

In essence, stop thinking of Cyber Monday as a one-day sales event. This short-term thinking leads to margin-killing discounts and a database full of low-retention shoppers. The real, sustainable strategy is to use the event’s massive traffic to acquire customers you can build a long-term, profitable relationship with. This requires a foundation of trust (reviews) and a structure for engagement (loyalty).

Building a Resilient Cyber Monday Strategy with Reviews and Loyalty

So, how do you actually do it? How do you build a strategy that converts shoppers and keeps them?

You focus on the two most critical, non-discount-related assets you have: what your other customers say about you (reviews) and the community you build around your brand (loyalty).

Strategy 1: Using Social Proof to Build Trust and Drive Conversion (Yotpo Reviews)

The Problem: Shoppers are skeptical, especially during BFCM. Deals can seem “too good to be true.” They’re moving fast and trying to decide between ten different tabs open in their browser.

The Solution: Authentic customer reviews are your most powerful conversion tool. They cut through the marketing noise and provide real, trustworthy social proof right at the moment of purchase.

Let’s look at our personas:

Best-in-Class Review Strategy

A “good” review strategy goes way beyond just having a star rating. A best-in-class strategy focuses on collecting and displaying high-impact content.

  1. Collect High-Quality Reviews: Don’t just ask “How was it?” Use smart forms to ask specific, helpful questions. Prompt customers to upload photos and videos. This User-Generated Content (UGC) is invaluable.
  2. Display Reviews Intelligently: Your best reviews are useless if they’re buried. Showcase them everywhere: on your homepage, on category pages, and especially on your product detail pages (PDPs). Use widgets that let shoppers filter by topic (“fit,” “quality”), photo, or rating.
  3. Leverage Review Insights: A best-in-class solution like Yotpo Reviews is built for this. It helps brands collect this kind of strategic, high-impact feedback. Its AI-powered tools, for instance, can prompt reviewers to write about specific topics, leading to more detailed and helpful content. Its robust display widgets make it easy to showcase this content in a way that helps shoppers find the answers they need, building trust and driving up conversion rates.

Strategy 2: Turning Deal-Seekers into Loyal Brand Advocates (Yotpo Loyalty)

The Problem: You converted that “one-and-done” shopper (like Sol) with a 50% off coupon. How do you stop her from churning and never returning?

The Solution: A strategic loyalty program gives her a tangible, financial reason to come back. You’ve already paid to acquire her; now you can invest in keeping her at a fraction of the cost.

Let’s look at our personas again:

Best-in-Class Loyalty Strategy

A basic “earn 1 point per dollar” program is a start, but it’s not enough to compete. A best-in-class strategy is flexible and engaging.

  1. Offer More Than Just Points: The best programs are tiered (e.g., Bronze, Silver, Gold). They offer experiential rewards like early access to sales, member-only products, free shipping, and birthday gifts.
  2. Make it Easy to Join and Use: Don’t use clunky third-party portals. Integrate the program right into your site and checkout flow. Make the rewards and point balance clear.
  3. Personalize the Rewards: A best-in-class solution like Yotpo Loyalty is designed to help brands build these kinds of dynamic, flexible programs. It’s not just a simple points-for-purchase tool. It’s a platform for creating a structured cycle of engagement. It gives you the flexibility to build a truly branded experience, create tiered rewards, and offer a variety of perks that resonate with your specific customers and encourage repeat purchases.

Do Yotpo Reviews and Loyalty Work Together?

This is a smart question, especially for resource-conscious developers. While both Yotpo Reviews and Yotpo Loyalty are powerful, best-in-class standalone products, they can create added value when used together.

This isn’t the main selling point, but it’s a very relevant and effective strategy.

For example, a brand could use Yotpo Loyalty to offer a high-value point reward (say, 100 points) to any customer who leaves a review through Yotpo Reviews. You could offer even more points (say, 250) if that review includes a photo or video.

This creates an effective, positive feedback loop:

  1. The shopper feels rewarded for their engagement and is more likely to leave a review.
  2. The brand gets the high-impact visual UGC (from Reviews) that it knows converts shoppers like Kai.
  3. The shopper now has a new point balance (from Loyalty) that encourages them to return for a second purchase.

It’s a mutually beneficial outcome that turns the post-purchase experience into the start of the next customer journey.

In essence, a modern Cyber Monday strategy must be two-pronged. First, you use a best-in-class reviews solution to build the trust and social proof needed to win the initial conversion. Second, you use a best-in-class loyalty solution to immediately give that new customer a compelling reason to return, breaking the “one-and-done” cycle.

Checklist: Is Your eCommerce Site Ready for Cyber Monday?

This isn’t a “set it and forget it” holiday. A smooth Cyber Monday requires weeks of preparation. Here’s a practical checklist.

The Week Before (Technical Prep)

The Week Of (Marketing & Merchandising)

The Day Of (Execution)

In essence, preparation is what separates a smooth, profitable Cyber Monday from a chaotic, stressful one. Technical readiness, especially for mobile, is paramount. But don’t forget the merchandising: your reviews and loyalty perks are key levers to pull.

Beyond 2025: The Future of Cyber Monday

Cyber Monday is constantly evolving. What works today might be outdated in three years. Here’s a look at what’s next.

The Influence of AI and Personalization

We’re already seeing this with the shopper personas. Shoppers are using AI tools to find the best deals and summarize reviews. Brands will (and must) do the same. The future isn’t just a generic “30% off” banner. It’s a hyper-personalized offer delivered to you at the right time.

Imagine a site that knows you’re an “Orion” persona. It won’t show you generic, impulsive deals. It will show you a curated list of high-performance items, prominently feature their 5-star reviews, and highlight the loyalty points you’ll earn.

The Rise of Social Commerce

Shopping is moving off of websites and onto social platforms. Personas like Kai are already making 12% of their toy purchases on social feeds.

The future of Cyber Monday will involve seamless shopping on TikTok, Instagram, and whatever platform comes next. Brands will need to syndicate their product reviews and loyalty programs directly into these new channels, allowing shoppers to buy and earn rewards without ever leaving their social feed.

Sustainability and Conscious Consumerism

There is a growing backlash against the hyper-consumerism of BFCM. Some shoppers feel overwhelmed by the waste and the pressure.

We’re seeing brands respond with “Green Friday” or “Giving Tuesday” campaigns, where they donate a portion of proceeds to charity. The future of Cyber Monday may involve more “conscious” deals, where brands that align with a shopper’s values (like sustainability) win their business, even if their discount isn’t the absolute deepest.

In essence, the future of Cyber Monday will be faster, smarter, and more personalized. It will be driven by AI, embedded in social feeds, and increasingly influenced by a brand’s values, not just its prices.

Conclusion: Making Cyber Monday Work for You

Cyber Monday has transformed from a simple online sale day into the complex, high-stakes peak of the eCommerce calendar.

Its history is rooted in the rise of technology, and its future will be defined by it. The lines between Black Friday and Cyber Monday have all but vanished, creating a weeks-long marathon where brands must fight for attention.

We’ve seen that modern shoppers are sophisticated and diverse. You have your highly-planned Strategists like Orion, who are guided by reviews, and your opportunistic Spontaneists like Sol, who are driven by discounts.

Success in this environment is no longer measured by one day’s sales. It’s measured by how many of those new customers you can turn into long-term, loyal fans. The deep discount is just the handshake. The real work begins after the sale.

Making Cyber Monday work for you in 2025 and beyond requires a resilient, two-part strategy. First, you need best-in-class social proof (like Yotpo Reviews) to build the trust needed to win the conversion. Second, you need a best-in-class loyalty program (like Yotpo Loyalty) to provide a powerful, immediate incentive for that customer to come back. This is how you break the “one-and-done” cycle and build a truly sustainable business.

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Frequently Asked Questions: BFCM

What is the main difference between Black Friday and Cyber Monday?

Traditionally, Black Friday (the day after Thanksgiving) was for in-store deals, especially on big-ticket items like TVs. Cyber Monday (the following Monday) was for online-only deals, often on fashion and smaller goods. Today, those lines are almost completely gone. Both are now massive online shopping events that are part of one long “BFCM” or “Cyber Week” promotion.

When is Cyber Monday 2025?

Cyber Monday 2025 is on Monday, December 1, 2025.

Why is it called “Cyber Monday”?

The term was coined in 2005 by Shop.org. They noticed a huge spike in online sales on the Monday after Thanksgiving. The theory was that people were returning to their jobs with high-speed internet (“cyber” connections) and doing the shopping they couldn’t do on their slower home internet over the weekend.

Do Cyber Monday deals last all week?

Yes, in most cases. What started as a one-day event has now stretched into “Cyber Week.” Many retailers start their Cyber Monday deals on the preceding Saturday or Sunday and extend them through the following week.

Are Cyber Monday deals better than Black Friday deals?

It depends on the product. Sometimes, Black Friday will have a slightly better promotional deal on a specific TV or laptop. Cyber Monday, however, often has better site-wide “percentage off” deals (e.g., “30% off everything”), which can be better for fashion, beauty, or home decor.

What product categories are most popular on Cyber Monday?

The most popular categories are typically electronics, apparel (fashion), toys, home goods, and beauty. These are all items that are easy to research and buy online.

How can small businesses compete on Cyber Monday?

Small businesses can’t (and shouldn’t) try to compete with Amazon or Macy’s on price. Instead, they should compete on:

What is “Cyber Week” or “BFCM”?

BFCM stands for “Black Friday Cyber Monday.” It’s the term retailers use to describe the entire shopping period that begins the week of Thanksgiving and lasts through the following week. It acknowledges that the “sale” is no longer just two single days but one long, connected event.

How important are customer reviews for Cyber Monday sales?

They are extremely important. Our data shows that planned shoppers (like “Orion” and “Lyra”) rely heavily on reviews (up to 83% in some categories) to validate their purchases. Spontaneous shoppers (like “Kai”) need visual reviews (photos/videos) to feel confident enough to buy on impulse.

What’s the best way to get repeat business after Cyber Monday?

Don’t let the relationship end with the sale. The best way to get repeat business is to have a customer loyalty program. Use the Cyber Monday sale as an opportunity to enroll new customers. By offering points, exclusive perks, and early access, you give them a clear financial and emotional reason to shop with you again, even at full price.

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Ben Salomon
Growth Marketing Manager @ Yotpo
November 17th, 2025 | 28 minutes read

Ben Salomon is a Growth Marketing Manager at Yotpo, where he leads SEO and CRO initiatives to drive growth and improve website performance. He has over 6 years of experience in digital marketing, including SEO, PPC, and content strategy. Previously, at Kahena, a search marketing agency, he helped ecommerce brands scale their businesses through data-driven advertising and search strategies. At Yotpo, Ben shares insights to help brands grow and retain customers in the fast-moving world of ecommerce. Connect with Ben on LinkedIn.

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